It also helps each person better understand how their own actions affect other members of the family. We want the forums to be a useful resource for our users but it is important to remember that the forums are with anyone else but it's like I told my doctor I felt like I had the flu and my throat just kept hurting off and on and was red , and they all chalked it up to post nasal drip , I asked if my hormones and menopause could be causing it told her I had read on this site that a lot of women were having the same issues she looked at me like I was stupid , and the rapid std test that shows results in 20 min was negative thank you Jesus , my sons are like mom you need to stop freaking out you've been checked you don't have anything but Google told me I was dying moreless and possibly had a horrible std even though my Dr's tell me if I did have I would be a lot sicker but this has all just suddenly hit me all at once within the last 6 months with the head aches and feeling moreless like flu symptoms and crap bundled all in one , I went to the er over it because my left under arm was hurting they did x-rays and said my lymph glands wasn't swelled and my blood work was fine , and I was like well why Is my throat red and why does it hurt but not hurt when I swallow and why is my armpit hurting and my upper chest off and on and why does my throat feel like it's going dry , simply it's allergies, pulled muscle , your fine just take musinex or a sinus med but here's the kicker since all of this started I'm having allergic reactions to a lot of stuff that I never had before , and my question is why does these doctors act like they've never heard of these symptoms with menopause well I'm apparently perimenopause, just turned 48 the 23 rd , so in short I wish someone would of kicked that snack in the ass and eve to for eating that stupid apple she cursed us all because she didn't listen to God's commandments , but I guess I cant be mad at her when I fell him daily to , I'm just so over all of this ughh , hope you feel better soon . Another way to say I Feel? My fault though i guess i should have googled "urinary problems in menopause" . I've so been there. I'm too old for HRT. Ive been told by my male gynecologist that i dont have vaginal atrophy. I know what you mean about chocolate I drank a choc shake the other day and I had horrible refux. my constant upset stomach/trapped air burping/ feeling unsteady when i walk is the worst one, amxiety, feel like i have ongoing flu. Im nauseous but hungry. I had lots of tests all came back negative. Is this normal or am I just losing my mind cuz it sure feels like it! Today I felt normal! I read a post you wrote about shoulder blade,throat and ear pain. Bladder still bothers me with this pressure. I still have the weird digestive issues unfortunately. I am about 2 months shy of my menoversary and i dont want anything to interfere with that. When the other person is immediately on the defense, they are less likely to listen and respond with an open mind. For example, a person might say something like, "I feel like you don't care." While this statement starts with an expression of how the speaker feels, it concludes with an accusation. I'm very thankful for your post because now I know I'm not alone. I would so love to meet some of you ladies. I was so worried and Google is the worst! x. So i was googling pretty much what causes elevated sed rate and alp rates. as being in breach of those terms. I saw your post about rib and left side pain. 5 Signs of an Energy Vampire and How to Cope, Effects of Conflict and Stress on Relationships, Relationship Emotions: How to Express Feelings in a Relationship, How Nitpicking Can Damage Your Relationship, How to Improve Your Relationships With Effective Communication Skills, Newlywed Advice: Tips for New Married Couples, Daily Tips for a Healthy Mind to Your Inbox, I understand you feel that way, but I feel this way: the benefits of I-language and communicating perspective during conflict, What a difference a pronoun makes: i/we versus you/me and worried couples perceptions of their interaction quality, Journal of Language and Social Psychology. Then the nausea which would come in waves. Strangely I don't have hot flashes yet but I'm sure they are around the corner. Good for a few weeks and it would come back for a week +. i have horrible nausea on and off all day everyday and no appetite!! But now, postmenopausal my life is pure misery. Registered in England and Wales. Verywell Mind's content is for informational and educational purposes only. Consenting to these technologies will allow us to process data such as browsing behavior or unique IDs on this site. Hi Jamie, I get weird head pressure too. So I completely get where you are coming from. Hi, i just read your post and i feel exactly the same way. Perhaps the other person would start giving examples of how they do let her say what she wants to do, start complaining that they always do what she wants to do, or even complain back that she never asks what they want to do. Now getting night sweats which are nothing compared to nausea. It was only a few times. can be really tender when i breathe in deeply. Moderator comment: I have removed the contact details as we do not publish these in the forums. Doesn't really make me feel better as it's easy to think something was growing and wasn't yet visible to themthe mind gamesmy only ray of hope is that it has been less noticeable sometimes so i figure that wouldn't happen if it was a progressive disease. Spoke too soon! God be with us all. By using "I feel" statements, couples can focus their communication on what they are feeling rather than assigning blame and making their arguments worse. I dont think its IC but i get this pressure but very little urine. If you ever need to talk, I am here. She has excellent reviews. Misunderstandings in relationships happen to everyone. im with you getting down and seeking God is the only thing i need too God is in control of our health . Im looking forward to it! I think the polyp made my lining look thicker than it was. The health anxiety I have developed is almost paralysing. i exhaust myself worrying all the time. I seen your post and it sounds like me. I was convinced that I had interstitial cystitis, I googled everything I could for my symptoms and finally resigned myself to continuing my oral and vaginal estrogen, having acupuncture and trying to just put one foot in front of the other to get through the really horrible days. I have been burping more than normal. I dont hardly have it anymore. Is it possible to feel like crap 80% of the month? Hi, I've developed this anxiety this year about fear I'm dying. Praying like you that this is just another "symptom" and not cancer. I-messages can also be a helpful way to provide constructive feedback to other people. Premarin and yes, i know about the mares I wanted to try this first as it got more good reviews than Estrace . One thing i notice, is that dehydration can cause me to feel rather unwell. i've had numerous tests done as well, but I still get all these aches and pains, which lead me to think the worse. Wow, this comment is so relatable. The use of I-messages is also more likely to evoke feelings of empathy, cooperation, and openness to negotiation in listeners. i am beyond tired everyday all day ( prob cause i dont sleep much ) and my body doesnt feel good. Its awful and i dont know if things are going to magically settle down after im post menopause. And it does make you feel nausea. This article discusses what "I feel" statements are, how they are used, and why they are beneficial in communication. Used correctly, they can remove an accusatory tone in the speaker's statements and allow people to express their point without getting a defensive reaction. Every day I wake up saying I am going to be strong but then another symptom appears! I pray that we all stay strong and do what we have to be overcome this and progress to enjoying this change of life. Synonyms for I Feel (other words and phrases for I Feel). I last bled in December and FSH test came out at 76. Should not be any higher than 30. It's frightening and debilitatingthe crying, the anxiousness coursing through me, the nausea, the panic attacks all night long. oh yes absolutely, i have about 100 symptoms, my heart rate was 140 this morning x, Mmmm sorry to hear that, it's horrible!! how is your diet? Hi l am the same postmenopausal 4 years had negative smear in july one week later all menopause symptoms back with a vengance fear of death constantly panic hot sweats depression had to start ads citalopram 20 been taking for 6 weeks hope it will work cant carry on like this .Keep well ladies. No children, wondering if this transition is harder on women who haven't had kids (?) dissapointed on the ulcer however as thought would be/provide remedy for resolve. Not sure why or what happens to our body during those times. I've had the same pelvic pain and my going to the Dr. this week. The focus stays on the feeling, and the goal continues to be alleviating the uncomfortable feeling. I feel like i always have some kind of physical problem and it's giving me major health anxiety. I am also going a lot it seems. I feel nauseous rather flu-like, have the anxiety especially health anxiety, muscular aches and pains, digestive issues, and the weirdest bladder symptoms ever. vaginal flatulence! I have lists and lists of symptoms , just wondering what sill be next you are not alone , keep your faith . I use to go to the stores, movies out to eat so wasn't this bad ..now being constantly in the house days at the time. It would last a few days each month and I had to make myself eat. I have also had digestive issues with bloating and gas - feel the need to burp. All the above symptoms I can relate to. I have been hit hard!! I have a rheumatologist appointment next Friday even though thankfully autoimmune disease has been ruled out. But i hesitate to take the antibiotic but my pain isnt getting better i suffered almost 3 yrs wake up with bitter taste and many tummy discomforts , i start intermittent fasting eating just lunch and light food for dinner . My husband and I work very closely in our jobs ,and so we can navigate times when I need to flop, however , sometimes we are called to try and carry on because of who we are in our jobs. I suffer terrible medical anxiety so understand what you are going through. Started with of course the hot flashes. We should have (when COVID is over) a national menopause convention like in Las Vegas. hi just ready all glory to god , bit I'm in a constant battle everyday I have some many things that's physical wrong with me , for aches pains to cramps tingling numbing surges of pain in bust hip aches groin pains back aches, stiff neck back of head shoulders weird headaches , light-headedness sometimes like I'm just floating ,it's a daily constant battle, I went through some really dark times in my mind and tried hrt but think that caused more light-headedness palpitations dropping in BP heart rate , had ecg done that's OK so just stopped taking it , but still constant feel ill daily , and now I have been called back for further testing following a mammogram, so I am all over the show , then I have to get down and seek God, because that's all I can do . I feel so connected to you all..will be 51 this April and in constant turmoilI'm also on propranolol for a anxiety.. My doctors tell me everything is fine as i have had normal CT scans and normal gyn ultrasounds. I had the worst heartburn ever! Eventually you have to come off both. i have been post menopause since 2015. i hope we can help eachother cope. Do you ever resolve that issue? I have so many odd symptoms I just feel like I'm about to drop dead any minute. I feel your pain, you have my sympathy and hope that by telling my tale, you know that there are other women out there going through the same thing. I-messages are frequently utilized as a way to resolve conflict without putting people on the defensive. This of course made me very cranky. I NORMALLY have labs done every year but this year has been epic so I have not been in but have never had any bad labs (hope I don't jinx myself). i given up i dont think ever will get back to normal..its been 10 years for me! i can totally picture myself doing this! Hopefully we will all see an improvement in our symptoms soon. I know exactly how you feel, anxiety is putting so much strain on my life, I don't sleep well as I get panic attacks, fear that I'm dying, I live alone and it makes it worse as I fear something will happen and I have no one to help me. one of a million new and strange things that's happened to me that I didnt have an actual term for. Instead of focusing on the actions or behaviors of the listener, feelings statements focus on how those actions make the speaker feel. Meticulously curated television underscore. PeerJ. no e nergy and sickly feeling all over, i suffer with the panic attacks that wake me also. are you drinking plenty of water? Anyway she says to throw away the applicator to the vaginal estrogen. My doctors say they fodt worry about my levels unless it was 3 times higher. Can I ask which menopause supplements are you taking? I then drove back home and quietly went to bed. I cant winlol! Im so glad I'm not alone. Hi Sian, i also had endometrial polyps. Posted have had periods off/on during course of last 3 years --- during which hospitalized twice for extreme nausea, dry heaving and dehydration. Then the rush of adrenaline.. plus panic attacks in between. Put a little on your finger. Don't worry about your bladder it will go away eventually. Me too , i took propranolol for palpitaions and felt that im about to passout . Although there is some mention of the other persons behavior, the focus continues to be on the uncomfortable feeling experienced by the speaker. I dont want to take HRT either. im learning that women especially watch other women for styles and although we do admire other women, it doesnt mean you are attracted to them. It just feels like its never going to end! i am glad to say while they can still come, they are at least frequent. I have always been bubbly and positive. I don't have any other "bad" symptoms like bloating, bleeding, heart burn, weight gain just this pressure down. Its not easy, I hope you have support around you. xx. x, Hi, my periods are very irregular, I won't have a period for 3-4 months, then I'll have one every 18 days a few times, the 5 months withoutI've had quite a lot of tests, bloods, been to 2 neurologists, gynae, gastro docs, all okish, except for Sibo and low in vit d and iron. Very scared. Every ache, pain I swear to God I am Googling convinces I have cancer or something and dying! Take care! Insomnia. (lol). Wishing better times for all of us, and I'm just really so happy to be here. Feels like a strange sort of pressure. this seriously needs to stop. Sleep is a new concern, when my meds always handled that before (mostly why I'm on them in the first place) and I feel all alone. I wouldn't say I'm 100% cured because I still have some issues now and again but I am so much better. I'm new to this site and I'm so grateful I've stumbled upon this forum. growing physically and menatlly very tired. it was prescribed me for palpitations but i felt even sicker taking it . i too get muscle tremors around my body, hot flashes and twitches or zapping feeling or skin crawling and the bloating and vaginal flatulence at times. I believe in GOD, so I put all my faith in him. There is no shame in taking medications when you need them. We are in this together ladies! Afraid that my insurance would deny the payment of the colonoscopy after I had it done (no prior authorization needed and I am not 50 or older), I decided to wait my symptoms out and sure enough, they have improved. Loss of appetite, feelings of doom. I'm here for you if you need to talk, Hi Viola, I was afraid this thread was dead since the last entry was 6 weeks ago but still wanted to give it a shot. I feel like under the possession of an evil force. God bless . I've been in perimenopause for five years now, but this fear and anxiety started this year, now with the lockdown and Covid19 it's even harder for me. It is so hard to get through both of these things at the same time. Right before meno hit I had a 2 month period that seemed endless and I honestly thought I was gonna die. 2018;9(1):2474. doi:10.1038/s41467-018-04925-y, Rogers SL, Howieson J, Neame C. I understand you feel that way, but I feel this way: the benefits of I-language and communicating perspective during conflict. I feel such dread, especially in the morning. I have had this deep ache and almost burning type sensation right on top of my pubic bone. praying for us all, Hi there! Wow, that is expensive! I have no appetite, nausea, dry mouth, incredibly fatigued - tired, headaches, occasional hot flashes, night sweats, etc.. Fighting to keep weight on via force feeding myself. my latest fears are thinking i no longer love my bf and that i am attracked to women. 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